1. I was looking at my website traffic reports this morning, as I do on occasion, and I realized that it had been almost four weeks since I’ve posted anything here. It hasn’t really felt that long, nor have I been particularly busy with discrete, explainable things to justify a long absence, but somehow I just haven’t found the time or the inclination to sit down and scribble. I know from long (28+ years) experience of running a personal website that activity ebbs and flows and waxes and wanes over time, and that the nature of the content offered also changes. For no particularly explainable reason, I’ve found that in 2023, some of the ongoing series type articles I’d done in recent years seemed to have run their course, and almost all of my posts this year have either been “omnibus” ones (like this one, with short bits about multiple topics), or related to the release and promotion of my books. Interestingly, traffic per post remains as high or higher than it has been over the past few years, though obviously total traffic is down a bit as I’m being less prolific. I’d posited a theory in early COVID days that websites like mine (either extant ones in 2020, or ones that emerged as people found themselves locked down with time on their hands) would experience a traffic heyday through the Anno Virum, then fade when life returned to something more closely approximating normal. That hypothesis has been borne out, both here, and with a lot of other websites that I read in pandemic days, many of which have gone silent or gotten quieter. Things are cyclical, always and everywhere, even in virtual space.
2. Speaking of my books, a reminder that Side by Side in Eternity would make a fine holiday gift for the military history aficionados in your family, while Ubulembu and Other Stories would very likely please the weird fiction fans among you. More information about both books, including where/how to order, is available here. I also have some copies here (along with a few stray Eponymous tomes) that I’d be happy to sign and send, should that be appealing; hit me up in comments or by email if you’d be interested in that option. As always, for those who have already read one or both of the books, I remain deeply grateful for your time, interest, and attention, and I’d be even more grateful if you’d be able or willing to leave a review in the online retail outlet of your choosing, or on your own platforms, where applicable.
3. As is likely painfully obvious to regular readers here, I love taking and sharing pictures, both ones with friends, family and loved ones in them, and ones that are primarily “artistic” views of interesting natural or man-made spaces and places. I have been using Flickr as my repository for photos since 2010; it’s a good and robust platform, no complaints with it to date. But as I was going through some old family photos a while back, creating the Fiat Colorum album of colorized black-and-white images, I started to get more actively mindful of the ways in which the 12,000+ photos on my online storage site may (or more likely, will) at some point become inaccessible to anybody who may one day follow in our footsteps and be interested in the lives we lived in our time. The act of printing images on paper bestows at least some hope that such images may endure; digitizing them seems an ultimately failure-prone approach, as evidenced by the number of things that I have on floppy discs, or cassette tapes, or created with expired/unsupported software/hardware, all of them no longer readily accessible to me, while my old cardboard boxes of pictures can still be trawled through anytime I want to see them. So over the summer, I took advantage of Flickr’s physical publication application and produced a coffee-table book of our family’s adventures abroad between 2010 and 2023, and gave it as a gift to family members. That one was a hit, so I did a follow-up this month of our various domestic trips and travels, and will be giving that one as this year’s featured family Christmas gift. While these tomes compile but a small fraction of all of the photos I’ve made and shared since 2010, they do at least represent physical collections that could conceptually remain accessible long after my digital platforms go dark. That feels satisfying to me, and I think I will do at least one more volume compiling the best of my “art shots” over the past decade-plus. I’m not selling or promoting any of these, other than to note that this was a fun and rewarding project, and one I’d commend to your own attention if you’d like to create your own lasting visual legacies.
Pleasing creative projects, happily shared with family.
4. While I haven’t been posting here very often, I have been busy with my writing partner, Jim McNeal, researching and writing our Crucibles: History’s Most Formidable Rites of Passage book, under contract with Agate Publishing, with representation by Mark Gottlieb of Trident Media Group. We’re scheduled to deliver our manuscript on April 1, 2024, with a planned publication date in early 2025. It’s been a most enjoyable project thus far, and we’re about two-thirds done based on planned final word count. Our premise, as explained in our accepted proposal, was as follows:
Crucibles: History’s Most Formidable Rites of Passage will explore the onerous initiation rituals of ~15 elite organizations. With stories crossing continents and centuries, Crucibles will detail the ways in which would-be initiates willingly push themselves to their breaking points and beyond, while striving to enter the worlds of the most secretive and powerful insiders.
Jim and I frame the book’s structure around our own Plebe Year at the United States Naval Academy in 1982-83, unquestionably one of the most difficult and formative experiences of our lives. We’ve already finished chapters on Marines at Parris Island, Shaolin Monks, the Knights Templar, the Gurkhas, the French Foreign Legion, the Dahomey Amazons, Mafia Made Men, Hawai’i’s Koa and “White Coat Ceremonies” for doctors. We’ve got Astronauts/Cosmonauts, Spies, the Omega Psi Phi fraternity, Freemasons, and Street Gangs in the pending queue, and may add another one or two if we have the space for them. The book will wrap with an over-arching assessment of commonalities and exceptions between our subject investigations, ideally to provide some meaningful sense of why, how, and whether rites of passage make meaningful differences to the elite organizations for which they serve as portals. Interesting stuff!
5. As I’ve been doing regularly this year, post-caving to streaming, I include with this post a link to one of my curated Spotify playlists, in hopes that some of you may find it enjoyable, entertaining, and maybe even educational. I’m picking my Gospel Playlist for this installment. Back during peak-COVID days, I’d posted a piece about what I dubbed “comfort music,” referring to the auditory equivalent of those gustatory delights that stick to the ribs and make us feel good anytime we listen to or eat them. And I noted in that article that the type of music sits best and most comforting for me, alongside a big tray of Stouffers Mac and Cheese and a brown paper sack full of boiled peanuts, is classic Southern Gospel Music, because:
While there may be no meeting tonight, alas, that doesn’t mean that good Gospel Music on the hi-fi can’t move the soul to swing. And, equally often, the hips and feet can get into the action too. There’s a reason that many-to-most of the 20th Century’s greatest soul, blues, pop and R&B artists got their starts in church choirs. This music is powerful. And I love it, dearly.
So set the playlist below to Shuffle, grab a log of cookie dough or a chicken pot pie or some leftover meatloaf or cold pizza or something made from pig parts and salt, and you should have a whole day’s worth of good and fuzzy feelings, warming both body and soul:
6. Speaking of comfort food and music, we’re off to Asheville, North Carolina, tomorrow for a big extended family Thanksgiving gathering at my sister’s house. When we get back later this month, I’ll be much more active here as the year’s end will be approaching, and that means it will be time for my annual reports on 2023’s best albums, films, books and other nerdy interests. Here’s wishing you all your own wonderful Thanksgivings, and I close this post with a public service item to help you maximize the goodness with your kith and kin if you find yourselves locked up together with too much food in the week ahead: Thanksgiving Rules of Decorum.